WHY DO MEN CHEAT?

When they were dating, everything was beautiful. Great and intense sex, they laughed about everything, played all the time, and the company of the other was all they wanted. But, as the relationship started to get serious, when they moved in together, all that intensity and excitement started to fade away.

But love didn't fade. It was still there, beating strongly in each of their hearts. So strong was the love that they decided to have a baby. A child, a product of their love, would make them inseparable and bring them closer together, they thought.

However, none of what they thought would happen was actually happening, quite the opposite. They were growing further apart, not communicating, not spending time together, and sex... don't even mention it!
And that's when she finds out:
- He cheated on her. Why? All her dedication, all the love, was all in vain...

So, why do men cheat after all?

• “Because for them, sex is more important than family, than love.”

• “Because they think more with their lower head than their upper head.”

These are the answers I hear most of the time.
Although the second answer is not wrong (laughs), men also have feelings and there are many reasons that lead them to cheat.

Most men who cheat are not looking for sex. They have sex at home. What they often lack is the kiss on the mouth, romance, compliments... They also like to feel desired, conquered and seduced.

Often, a man cheats because of a lack of sex.
The couple gets caught up in routine; the woman is always tired and without sexual appetite, and when they do have sex, it's more like a “give and take,” and then each goes their separate ways.

Contrary to what most people think, the lack of sex makes a man feel unwanted as if the woman has no interest in him, and it is this feeling that drives him to seek someone else.

The man ends up feeling belittled and insecure, which leads him to seek the attention he doesn't have in the relationship.

Usually, from the moment they have a child, the woman neglects herself a lot, doesn't take care of herself and doesn't realize she's committing a crime against herself – after all, self-love comes first... “because if we don't love ourselves, who will?!”

The couple starts to neglect the relationship and there are no longer moments of intimacy as the children become the centre of attention. However, it is important to remember that there is a couple entity beyond the family entity and it is VERY IMPORTANT to reserve some time for just the two of you... ONLY the two of you.

Communication is essential in a relationship. When you feel that yours is falling apart, talk to him, confide in him, surprise him with a romantic dinner... It's not just women who need to be pampered. Demonstrations of love and interest also mean a lot to men. :)