G-Spot

Discover the G-Spot and get to know your body better. CUPIDO explains how to explore this pleasure zone, respecting your limits and preferences, alone or with a partner.

Featured in various magazines, blogs, texts, and the like, the G-Spot remains, nonetheless, a mystery for many women.

Here at CUPIDO, we really, truly want all women to know themselves well.

And not just on an emotional level. The main goal of CUPIDO, the true reason for our existence, has always been, and continues to be, to help all women and men explore themselves sexually, so they can enjoy alone, or share this information with their partners, to enjoy a full sexual life together!

And this only happens when each of us truly knows ourselves. When each of us knows our own body, and knows which erogenous zones we like to be caressed, or even mistreated! In a good way, of course!

EACH PERSON HAS THEIR OWN WAY OF FEELING PLEASURE

Some prefer caresses, some like tender little slaps, and there are even those who feel extreme excitement when they are "sexually ravished" by someone they trust, and of course, without ever crossing their limits!

Everything is valid! And the more we express ourselves sexually, the more pleasure we will have, and the happier and more fulfilled we will become with everything that happens in our lives.

"During sex, we release large amounts of dopamine, and this makes us very happy!"

Of course, we could explain everything that happens on a cerebral level when we have sex, but that would make the text exhaustive and perhaps even boring. Here, the most important information we should retain is actually what we all already know - during sex, we release large amounts of dopamine, and this makes us very happy!

And now we come to the moment of talking about this happiness :)

Some studies indicate that only 18% of women can achieve orgasm through penetration alone, which is actually quite low... This means that, out of every 100 women, only 18 achieve orgasm through penetration alone.

But we are going to change that. And right now!

If you are among the 82%, the solution is very simple, but unfortunately it is not understood or accepted by everyone.

Achieving orgasm is a right for all women! And having an orgasm during sex is the peak moment that should never be neglected, EVER!

The quickest and least discreet way is through the external stimulation of the clitoris, a topic already covered in our BLOG, by Sexologist Tânia Graça and we recommend reading it.

The other way is through the G-SPOT.

BUT AFTER ALL, WHAT IS THE G-SPOT?

In fact, the G-Spot is not yet anatomically well defined. Some claim it is an internal continuation of the Clitoris, others say it is an independent zone.

To make it easier, we will simply say it is a zone where a woman feels immense pleasure, and we will explain how to get there :)

FINDING THE G-SPOT

To find the G-Spot, or any other erogenous point on our body, we first need to be at peace. Find a quiet area in our home where we can embark on self-discovery without anyone bothering or interrupting us halfway through.

Once you have found this divine spot, use your fingers or a specific vibrator to slowly massage the clitoris, helping it to dilate.

Following the theory that the G-Spot is an extension of the clitoris, by increasing in volume, the G-Spot will also enlarge, making it much easier to find.

Then, with the help of lubricant, slide a finger into the vagina, always facing the belly button, until you feel a slightly more textured area. It is about 5 to 7cm in, and that will be your G-Spot.

The initial sensation may feel strange and might even give you a slight urge to urinate. Even so, you should continue to stimulate that point with just one finger, making gentle strokes imitating a motion that indicates to "COME HERE". Just as you do when you want to tell someone to come closer, but in a silent version.

The expectation is that, after a short time, you will feel increasingly comfortable with your stimulation, to the point where it becomes more and more pleasurable.

I HEARD THAT G-SPOT STIMULATION GIVES GREAT ORGASMS...

And you heard right!
It is proven by numerous women that G-Spot stimulation gives them so much pleasure that they experience powerful orgasms and even ejaculate!

BUT I AM ONE OF THE 82%. I DON'T WANT TO STIMULATE THE CLITORIS WHILE HAVING SEX, BUT I WANT TO HAVE AN ORGASM

Very well.
From our experience, and in conversation with thousands of clients on the subject, the most reliable way to have an orgasm during sex is through simultaneous clitoral stimulation.

However, if you have the sensitivity to know where your G-Spot is, there are some positions that can help you stimulate it!

LEARN TO USE THE PENIS FOR YOUR PLEASURE, NOT HIS!

While you are caressing the penis, preparing it to satisfy you, look at it. Measure it up and start formulating a cunning plan on how to use it for your own benefit!

See if it is long or short, see if it is flat or round, see if it has a curve or if the head stands out from the rest. If it has any of these latter characteristics, oh woman, that tool will be very useful to you!

Enough of them setting the pace and trying to pierce us from one side to the other without rhyme or reason! It's time to use that penis for our pleasure, not theirs! :D

POSITIONS THAT HELP STIMULATE THE G-SPOT

COWGIRL
The CowGirl, is a position you may have already tried.
Basically, you should lay your partner on his back and "mount him".

But, instead of "riding" him up and down in a cardio-vascular frenzy, try using the penis to find your G-Spot.

Use slow movements, forwards and backwards, taking advantage of the curvature or the pronounced dimensions of the glans, and experiment with varying depths until the penis finds the right spot.

You can return to "galloping" whenever you wish, but when you want to have your orgasm, you already know how to achieve it.

DOGGY STYLE
Doggy style should not be new to anyone. Get on all fours and let your partner penetrate from behind.

However, this time let's vary things to take more advantage of the penis.

Lean more forward, lowering your head, keeping your bum well up. Try to lay your forearms completely flat on the bed.

Now try being the one to set the pace, once again making the penis work for you.

MISSIONARY WITH CLOSED LEGS
The missionary is the classic position for making love.
But here with a twist of lime and tabasco sauce!

Start with the woman lying down and him on top. But then both close their legs creating more snugness.

The position is simple and even conservative for those who like things that way. But the fact that everything is more snug does not allow for such deep penetration, thus enabling the woman to try adjusting to feel the penis where she wants it.

FIND WHAT WORKS BEST FOR YOU

If you are one of those women who watches pornographic films to learn something new, forget it! Of course, XXX films are fun and can even give us a higher level of excitement. But in reality, they are not so focused on women's pleasure.

We all have different tastes, but have you found what really will give you pleasure in every sexual encounter?

There is a magical spot inside all women. Few know it, and few have really taken the trouble to find it.

Use this guide and your partner's penis, and find that enchanted spot that will guarantee you orgasm after orgasm, just with penetration!

Experiment with various things, various positions, various toys, and various scenarios. Never forget that the greatest orgasm is created in our mind. So, fantasise and make your fantasies come true.

Above all, use his penis to your advantage!

The tool is good, he just doesn't know how to use it ;)

By Sexual Advisers
CUPIDO