HOW TO PERFORM ORAL SEX ON A WOMAN

Get ready to learn everything you've always wanted to know about how to bring her to cloud nine with oral sex. From reciting the "A,B,C" to taking her on a ROUND THE WORLD trip, you will learn how to surprise your partner with new ways of satisfaction and excitement like never before.

Let us show you how you can become a master of oral sex. After all, this is how sex becomes perfected!
 

THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO ORAL SEX
- FOR HIM -

Oral sex is probably one of the most intimate experiences a man can share with a woman, and nothing excites her more and gives her more pleasure than a man who knows how to work both her body and mind.

Although there are many secrets to providing her with excellent oral sex, the first and foremost is to know that the woman's biggest sexual organ is her brain. To give her pure pleasure, you will first have to excite her mentally before being able to excite her physically. If you can master that, you will see how your efforts will lead her to a pleasure she never even knew existed.

AND HOW WILL YOU DO THAT?
We have broken down the essentials into an easy-to-remember equation: ROMANCE + RELAXATION = CLIMAX.

Some simple examples of how you can please, pamper, and excite her are:

• Cooking dinner for her, or taking her out unexpectedly;
• Bringing her breakfast in bed;
• Surprising her with flowers;
• Calling her at work and telling her how eager you are to see her later;
• Or simply massaging her feet.
   

THE KEY IS TO SHOW HER HOW SPECIAL SHE IS.

The second secret is understanding the tools you have to work with: Your mouth; Comprised of lips, tongue, teeth, gums, breath, saliva, and voice. The mouth is a multi-sensory pleasure machine!

Just remember that the more varied and diverse you are with your mouth, the more pleasure you will give your beloved.

The techniques in this guide will help you use these tools to the fullest, so take these oral sex secrets, tongue-twisting techniques and positions included in this guide and try them out with your beloved. With a little practice, you will see how good you can be, and she will undoubtedly start to reciprocate.

HEALTH AND HYGIENE

Whether you are a beginner in oral sex or already a pro, approaching a woman's genitals can sometimes cause a bit of anxiety.

If your beloved feels uncomfortable with your journey down under, it is probably because she thinks it might not smell or taste as good as desired. But most likely, she is wrong, as her scent will actually be quite stimulating.

If you are hesitant to embark on this journey with your beloved, be aware that a woman's vagina cleanses and maintains itself.

If she is clean and does not suffer from an infection, then it should not smell or taste bad.

If either of you have concerns about cleanliness but are willing to explore, the best solution is to "wash away the worries." Take a shower or bath together before engaging in oral sex, or speed up to foreplay and, using a warm, damp towel, gently cleanse her genital area.

SAFE ORAL SEX

Despite the mechanics of oral sex, safe sex practices are always necessary! Genital/hand, genital/mouth, and genital/genital contact, even without penetration, can transmit STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) and HIV. Your best defense is to be aware of these risks and take preventive measures - together.

If either of you has doubts about your sexual health or that of your partner, then you should consult a doctor and undergo the necessary tests to rule out any STDs.

Safe Oral Sex is possible and quite pleasurable.

THE VULVA

To provide serious pleasure, you first need to know the anatomy of the vulva and identify the most sensitive points.

• CLITORIS – This organ, although it looks like a small button, is the most sensitive part of a woman's genitals (second only to the brain). Since the clitoris is like an iceberg (with most of the organ hidden inside the body), it is quite delightful when stimulated along the inner and outer lips.
   
• BIG LIPS (OUTER) – Extending from the pubic mount to the vaginal opening, the outer lips consist of folds of skin, one on each side. These lips have many nerve endings that make them sensitive to touch and temperature.
   
• SMALL LIPS (INNER) – Located inside the outer lips are the inner lips. These small folds of skin are usually thin and hairless. Since these lips have even more nerve endings than the outer lips, they are even more sensitive to touch.
   
• VAGINAL OPENING – Located just below the urethra is the opening of the vagina. With most nerve endings located around it, stimulation is much more intense when directed here.
   
• CLITORIS HOOD – Equivalent to the foreskin of an uncircumcised penis, the clitoral hood is best described as a small fold that protects or covers the clitoris. It can be easily lifted, with the nose or tongue, to access the clitoris.
   
• PERINEUM – This area of soft, mostly hairless skin is located between the bottom of the vaginal opening and the anus. It can become very sensitive to sensual touches, such as kisses, licks, and caresses.
   
• ANUS – Easily stimulated, the anus is extremely sensitive to touch. WARNING: If there is any kind of penetration in the anus, do not return to the vaginal area until the mouth/finger is properly cleaned, otherwise there may be a risk of infections.
   

TONGUE MOVEMENTS

Do not forget about versatility! Always performing the same movement can become monotonous for both of you and can even decrease your partner's sensitivity. Savour, taste, massage, and explore, always with different movements.

 

THE TECHNIQUES

Variations: Alternate between uppercase and lowercase, handwritten and typed. Even better, make her melt, literally, in your mouth, by writing her name or "I love you." Or even better, play your own guessing game...
 

- SLOWER -

Tip #1

Communication is key to better sex. Tell her what you desire, how you desire it, and how much you enjoy doing it. Encourage her to tell you what she wants and how she wants you to do it.

 

THE HUMMING

Try humming a little song while you're down under. This will create a buzz on your lips that will be felt like a vibrator on hers!

How to do it: Discreetly, first practice various tones on the back of your hands. This way, you can feel what kind of sensations you are producing. The deeper and more intense the sound, the more your lips will vibrate. This way, you will give her immense pleasure when you hum while gently pressing your lips on her genitals with your mouth slightly open - this way, the lips vibrate freely. You can also try some long, deep moans. As soon as you start with your reverberating lips, she won't mind what you are saying.

Attention: Unless you are a good singer, this technique may require a good sense of humor from both partners!

- FASTER -

Tip #2:

4 ways to practice oral techniques with your tongue:

• Eating ice cream from a cone;
• Licking the dessert bowl without using a spoon;
• Sucking on a lifebuoy from the inside out with your tongue;
• Tying a knot in the stem of a cherry using only your tongue and teeth.

 

MENTHOL MAGIC

A practice dating back to ancient Greeks - the use of menthol, long known as a genital stimulant, during oral pleasure. In fact, the topical application of menthol will gently numb the clitoris, enhancing the prolonged oral sex session for her!

How to do it: Partially dissolve a menthol lozenge in your mouth before heading down south. With varied tongue strokes, gently but firmly press the lozenge directly against and around the clitoris. If initially too strong for her, slide the lozenge between your cheeks and teeth and use your tongue and saliva to transfer the menthol until it starts to take effect. Just as her excitement builds, so does the itch and numbness sensation. Continue playing around her genitals until she explodes with pleasure.

Attention: Every woman is different, as is her sensitivity. When used in excess, menthol can cause a burning sensation. Experiment with one lozenge; if she feels nothing, open a new one and try again.
 

- GENTLER -

Tip #3:

The success of excellent oral sex is 95% determination and 5% talent.

 

THE VACUUM

This technique is all about suction! Drive her crazy by succulently sucking the inside of her thighs, outer and inner lips, and finally, the clitoris.

How to do it: The secret here is to frequently vary the intensity and duration of suction. Start with 1 to 2-second intervals of gentle suction. Assess her reaction first before moving on to longer and more intense levels of suction. When she is fully excited, focus the desired suction level directly on the area around the clitoris. Also use your tongue, moving it back and forth, between varied intensities and durations, to give her the best pleasure.

Attention: Too much suction can lead to discomfort and potential bruising - a sort of "hickey." To avoid getting kicked in the face, bring your fingers to her mouth so she can show you how she likes to be "sucked on."
 

Variations: During long suction intervals, try incorporating small circular movements with your tongue to the area being sucked. She will love it!

 

- STRONGER -

Tip #4:

Did you know that her taste will vary depending on what she eats and drinks?

 

AROUND THE WORLD

Take her to the clouds as you slowly travel around her body, savoring every inch until you reach the center.

How to do it: The art of this technique is to tease her to the maximum while focusing on the path across her body to the eagerly anticipated genitals.

Start by kissing her on the mouth. From there, move on to kissing, nibbling, and licking other parts of her face, neck, and ears. Regardless of the position she is in, whether facing you or with her back to you, continue to work with your mouth. Include unexpected areas like armpits, wrists, and fingers, as well as the anticipated areas (chest, belly button, and lower back). The more unpredictable you are, the more excited she will become.

Slowly and firmly increase the intensity of the kisses and tongue movements as you approach the already eager genitals - lightly touch first and listen to her moan. Continue with the extravagant tongue work around the clitoris and take her to ecstasy.

Variations: Edible oils, creams, and lubricants are always a refreshing addition to your trips. See the various options, HERE.

 

- YES -

Tip nº5:

If your face isn't smooth and soft like a baby's skin, you're more likely to feel like sandpaper against her delicate skin.

 

HOT AND COLD

Offer your beloved an overwhelming whirl of sensations by alternating between warm and cold lips. The nerve endings respond to both touch and temperature, which will bring her twice the exhilaration.

How to do it: With a small piece of crushed ice on your tongue, or held between your teeth, trace the contours of her body, but only for a short time. Then, immerse your lips and tongue in warm water and immediately return to the same spot where you left the ice. Alternate between hot and cold, back and forth, as you please her with your tongue. Don't forget to do this on all the erogenous zones: nipples, neck, navel, inner thighs, and finally the genitals.

Attention: After some time, the skin becomes insensitive to the same stimulus. The trick is to vary between hot and cold sensations as frequently as possible.

Variations: For cold sensations, you can vary between ice or refreshing effect lubricants. For warm sensations, you can choose from amongst lubricants and edible oils with a warming effect.

 

- OH MY GOD -

THE ADVENTURER

For the more adventurous, anal stimulation can be veeery exciting.

How to do it: With your beloved on all fours, approach her from behind. Gently touch her buttocks with nibbles, kisses, and licks. With your tongue, slowly and passionately trace the line of her body, lingering in the area between the perineum and the anus. Stimulate this sensitive area with rhythmic tongue motions, such as pulses and flutters.

If she wishes to be touched around the anus, gently massage the area around the entrance with your tongue in circular motions. You can always add a bit of lubricant for better sensation. Any kind of penetration should be done slowly, carefully, and with her guidance.

Attention: Once the anus has been penetrated, the tongue should be thoroughly washed before returning to the vaginal area or any other part of the body. Otherwise, you both run the risk of infection.

 

- DON'T STOP -

Tip nº6:

For women, foreplay has two essential stages. The first works on her brain, the second on her body. A "job," to be well done, should be performed in this order.

 

THE CLASSIC

This position allows for better caressing and clitoral stimulation. It also allows for better adaptation to alternate between broad and pointed licks while circling the clitoris. The woman can have her legs either open or closed. Place pillows under her hips and beneath your chest for more comfort and a wider range of movement.

 

- AGAIN -

Tip nº7:

When you hit the right spot, stay consistent and don't change anything!

 

ON YOUR FACE

If your partner likes to adjust the pressure and speed to her liking, then this is the perfect position. It is also ideal for both upward and downward movements as well as suction. Support your head with pillows for better comfort and more vertical flexibility.

 

- THAT'S THE WAY -

Tip nº8:

Oral sex does not always result in orgasms. It can be used as foreplay or intermittently during or after sex.

FROM BEHIND

This position is excellent for gentle and superficial vaginal stimulation and more direct anal play.

 

- THANK YOU -

Tip nº9:

Feel free to improvise with any technique. Including new ideas in your sexual repertoire always makes things more exciting.

 

SIXTY-NINE - 69

Though this is a great position for both to warm up, it's also ideal for the woman, who becomes more sensitive around the clitoris. Gently stimulate her clitoris with soft movements while watching her excitement grow more and more. Vary a bit more by changing positions - who is on top and bottom - and even try it on the side.

Tip nº10:

Read her body language. If what you're doing isn't working, switch to something different. Don't be afraid to ask what feels good.

EXTRAS

What is a well-synchronised tongue and how do you know you have it?
If you wish to surprise your partner, here are some fundamental rules:

1. ALWAYS START GENTLY
Since the clitoris is initially very sensitive, women love to be touched lightly at first. With your mouth completely wet, brush against her genitals.

Pull back and gently caress her clitoris and genital area with a flattened, well-moistened tongue. Repeat while incorporating some kisses until you notice a significant increase in the level of excitement. (You should notice a swelling of the clitoris and less difficulty in finding it).

2. SLOWLY INCREASE THE INTENSITY
Once you notice her excitement level rising, increase the pressure of your tongue strokes. Now, start to introduce suction as well as faster strokes with the pointed tongue.

3. STAY CALM, EVEN IF YOU HIT THE JACKPOT
When she moans and screams - because, obviously, you've hit the right spot - it means she wants you to continue doing exactly what you're doing. Not faster, nor harder, but precisely the same as what you've been doing!

4. IT'S NEVER A GOOD TIME FOR RAPID TONGUE STROKES
Thrashing wildly at her clitoris, especially at the start, is not a very stimulating sensation for most women. But we cannot generalize, as not all women have the same sensitivity.

5. VARIETY IS THE SPICE OF LIFE
Make sure to vary your tongue movements frequently. The variety will have effects that will bring her immensssse and much more intense pleasure. Also, vary the frequency of kisses, licks, suction, breathing, etc...

6. ALWAYS ASK WHAT FEELS BEST
She is your best guide for oral sex. Ask her how and what she likes.

7. ALTERNATIVES
If your partner is extremely sensitive, try practicing oral sex with her panties on.

DON'T FORGET: For women, a man who gives good oral sex is worth his weight in gold. Follow our tips, give her the best oral sex and we guarantee she will never forget you!