HOW TO PERFORM ORAL SEX ON A MAN
THE COMPLETE GUIDE
Oral sex is brilliant, isn't it? It's ridiculously intimate, severely sensual, and you don’t necessarily need to take off all your clothes to do it.
But believe me, there's more to fellatio than just sucking the penis. The best oral sex sessions involve the mouth, tongue, fingers, eyes, voice, and - most importantly - the brain (but not the teeth, unless requested).
KNOWING THE MAN'S INTIMACY
Performing fellatio is an act that requires a lot of confidence and a bit of knowledge. So, we thought you should get to know your partner's penis a little better.
- PENIS - This is the male organ used in sexual intercourse. It has three parts: the root, which attaches to the abdominal wall; the body or shaft; and the glans, which is the cone-shaped end of the penis.
- GLANS - The glans is partially or completely covered by the foreskin, except in men who have been circumcised. The foreskin can usually be retracted over and past the glans, and can retract automatically during an erection. The glans is most commonly known as the "head" or "tip" of the penis.
- URETHRA - The urethra is the tube that carries urine from the bladder out of the body. In men, it has the additional function of ejaculating semen when a man reaches orgasm. When the penis is erect during sex, the flow of urine is blocked by the urethra, allowing only semen to be ejaculated during orgasm.
- SCROTUM - This is the loose skin pouch that hangs behind and below the penis. It contains the testicles, as well as many nerves and blood vessels. The scrotum acts as a "climate control system" for the testicles. For normal sperm development, the testicles must be a slightly lower temperature than body temperature. Special muscles in the scrotum wall allow it to contract and relax, moving the testicles closer to the body to warm or away from the body to cool the temperature.
- TESTICLES - These are oval organs, about the size of large olives, found in the scrotum, each suspended at either end by a structure called the spermatic cord. The testicles are responsible for producing testosterone, the primary male sex hormone, and for generating sperm. Inside the testicles are masses of tubes called seminiferous tubules. These tubes are responsible for sperm production.
- PROSTATE - The prostate is a walnut-sized male organ, made up of muscle fibers and glandular tissue, located below the bladder and connected to the urethra. It plays an important role in ejaculation, as it is the organ that produces the fluid that facilitates sperm mobility.
It is also known as the male G-spot, considering that its stimulation provides the man with the best orgasm ever.
- PERINEUM - This is an area rich in blood vessels and nerve endings, which provides sensitivity for sexual arousal, being considered an erogenous zone. Stimulation with massages, licks, or light touches can produce pleasure stimuli in the brain, contributing to penis erection.
- ANUS - easily stimulated, the anus is extremely sensitive to touch.
If you really believe that men enjoy oral sex so much that they don't care about technique and intention, then think again...
In reality, there is a lot of variation in fellatio skills, and knowing how to read your partner, what to do with him, and when to do it, can make all the difference.
There are many tips on how to perform oral sex on a man. Normal, considering that it is human nature to always want to do better... So, and as expected, CUPIDO has also come up with some tips on how to drive him crazy, using only your mouth and hands.
FLAVOUR
If either of you has any concerns about cleanliness but a desire to explore, the best solution is to "wash away the worries." Take a shower or bath together before engaging in oral sex, or skip straight to foreplay and, using a warm, damp towel, gently clean his genital area.
Use, for example, an EDIBLE LUBRICANT or a EDIBLE OIL WITH WARMING EFFECT, to heat things up...
SAFE ORAL SEX
Despite the mechanics of oral sex, safe sex practices are always necessary! Genital/hand contact, genital/mouth contact, and genital/genital contact, even without penetration, can transmit STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) and HIV. Your best defense is to be aware of these risks and take preventive measures - together.
If either of you has doubts about your sexual health, or that of your partner, then you should consult a doctor and have the necessary tests done to rule out any STDs.
Safe Oral Sex is possible and quite pleasurable.
Use a CONDOM, always!
COMFORT
No one can have fun and perform well if not physically comfortable. Especially in oral sex, where the act itself can cause some tension in the jaw and neck.
Kneel before him, with a cushion under your knees, with him standing or sitting, where he can have full control of the situation.
If you prefer to take the lead, lay him on his back and kneel between his legs.
LET'S PERFORM ORAL SEX ON A MAN!
ENTHUSIASM
Show enthusiasm in what you are doing. Don't do it just because. No matter how good you are at the technique itself, if you don't show any enthusiasm, you might as well not start.
TEASE
Foreplay makes all the difference. The longer it takes, the better the climax will be. To increase excitement, start with a gentle massage from the thighs to the groin. Caress the perineum and testicles and pay attention to his reactions, both verbal and facial. Massage, gently and softly, leaving him eager to feel your hands on his erection.
Blow, caress, kiss, everything except his penis. Wait until he is breathless and practically begging.
LICK
Explore the same terrain, this time using your tongue. Use slow, wide movements. Run your tongue from the anus to the glans. Don't be afraid to use a lot of saliva, as this natural lubricant is great and helps create friction and suction.
USE YOUR MOUTH AND TONGUE
As you lick his entire penis, run your tongue down to give the frenulum a good wet stroke. The frenulum contains a bundle of nerves. Stimulate it with the tip of your tongue. Don't be afraid to try different types of licks or kisses.
USE YOUR LIPS
The so-called "lipstick technique" creates exciting sensations for him. Using your hand, run the head of his penis against your lips, taking the head between the contours for additional lubrication.
ENJOY THE FORESKIN
If your partner is uncircumcised, insert your tongue into the foreskin and circle around the glans. You can also use your fingers to gently massage the glans through the foreskin, alternating with deep licks.
ALSO USE YOUR HAND
A well-done fellatio cannot be achieved with just the mouth. Place your hand around the penis, covering half of it. Take the other half into your mouth and coordinate the movements, so that your hand and mouth move up and down simultaneously. Massage with your hand, up and down, and at the same time, rotate your hand.
Occasionally, follow the mouth with your hand to the glans, remove your mouth and use the palm of your hand to slide and twist under the glans (as if you were squeezing an orange), then grab the penis again and put your mouth back on, continuing the previous movement.
EYE CONTACT
It seems intimidating, but the reward is worth it.
Look at him as you take his penis into your mouth. As you try to take in as much as you can. Throughout the movement, make eye contact with him. Besides him LOVING it, this contact makes both of you release more oxytocin.
EXPLORE OTHER SENSITIVE POINTS
The man has many erogenous points that are super sensitive and can lead to an amazing experience.
Massage the insides of his thighs, the groin, perineum, and anus.
Did you know you can stimulate his prostate externally? Apply some pressure each time you run your fingers on the perineum. Make circular movements, gently caress the anus, and watch him go wild with pleasure.
DON'T FORGET THE TESTICLES
The testicles are super sensitive, surrounded by a layer of very thin skin full of nerve endings. Massage them during the act. Play with them, lick them, gently pull them, give them gentle taps.
SIDE ORAL
In this position, he is lying on his back and you lie halfway to the side, so you are at a perfect angle. What does this mean? Depending on the shape of the penis and your mouth, this can be a great position for deep-throating. This position will feel great to him because your lips will be tight around his entire penis, especially on the glans.
How to do it? Lay him on his back in bed or on the floor. Then lay down with your head resting on his thigh, face down.
Tip: Tell him to lie down and enjoy the show, or to move back and forth for a different stimulation and sensations.
ON YOUR KNEES
The most classic and beloved position for most men. Seeing the woman kneeling in front of him while giving him oral sex. The sight of that so "pornographic movie-like" and having some control over your movements drives him crazy.
How to do it? As the name suggests, he can be sitting on the edge of the bed or couch, or standing in the shower, for example. Here, you become submissive and kneel, ready to please him.
Tip: Maintain a lot of eye contact to enhance the experience. In the end, tell him to ejaculate on your neck. He will LOVE it.
Try using a PROSTATE STIMULATOR while pleasuring him. Not only will you enhance his pleasure, but you will also leave him with weak legs from such a strong orgasm he will have.
DEEP THROAT
This is perhaps the best position for deep-throating. Here, your throat is fully aligned with your mouth, allowing for greater penetration of the penis.
Since he has a lot of freedom here, use your hands to control his movements, so you are always comfortable. Relax your throat and enjoy the "balls" hitting your eyelids.
How to do it? Super simple. Just lie on your back in bed, with your head at the edge. He stands behind you.
Tip: Here you will have all the most sensitive areas at your disposal. Take advantage of it and don't ignore the perineum and anus. Give him ANALINGUS while you masturbate him with a SLEEVE.
For men, oral sex is as important as sex itself. Follow our tips and give him the best oral sex, always! Believe me, he will never let you go ;)
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